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Science & Soul of Flourishing 🪷✨
Exploring insights from modern neuroscience, psychology, and ancient wisdom to cultivate embodied well-being. Stay tuned!
“The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change.”
- Carl Rogers
You’ve read the books, listened to the podcasts, tried the meditation apps, and invested in therapy.
So why do you still snap at the people you love most? Why do you finish the whole bag of chips when you’re not even hungry?
Maybe these are questions you’ve asked yourself. Have you ever listened to their tone?
There’s likely some judgment in them, perhaps a lot. But underneath, there’s something else: an earnest curiosity, a longing to grow into more of who you are.
Yet no one has ever scolded a seed into becoming a tree. A seed needs soil, light, and water, not shame.
Research suggests that self-criticism keeps us on high alert for threat, which narrows our thinking and makes change harder. Self-compassion does the opposite: it creates the safety to experiment, stumble, and learn.
Acceptance isn’t giving up on growth. It’s giving up the war with yourself, so the part of you that longs to grow finally has the conditions to do so.
What might unfold if you stopped trying to fix yourself from a place of lack, and instead explored your potential from a place of wholeness?
If you’re curious about transforming your inner critic into your inner ally, I’d love to help. Schedule a free consultation to explore how we can work together.
Hello, I’m Dara — Well-Being Coach & Consultant 🌱 rooted in compassion + neuroscience
I know the self-improvement treadmill well. I trained as a coach, then as a psychotherapist studying IFS, EMDR, and somatic approaches, and I’ve spent more than a decade in my own healing work.
What changed things most wasn’t reaching some external measure of success. It was an embodied understanding that worthiness was never going to come from outside of me. Growth now feels less like fixing what I perceive to be “wrong” with me and more like befriending myself, and exploring what might be possible.
That’s what I hope to offer you — the freedom to be imperfectly human and the gift of growing from a place of wholeness. Not a “better” you, but the embodied experience of meeting who you already are, and who you’re becoming, with compassion. The kind of compassion that is rooted in a "strong back, soft front, wild heart" (inspired by Roshi Joan Halifax and Brené Brown).
Ready to explore what’s possible for you?
the science & soul of flourishing
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If this sparks your curiosity, I would love to connect with you — schedule your free 20-minute discovery call.
A bit about me.
I’m a multi-passionate human with previous lived experience as a psychotherapist, corporate/startup brand strategist, and creative business founder.
Off the clock, you’ll find me delighting in life’s simple wonders — dancing with my daughters and soaking in their laughter. Nature lights up my soul — I enjoy barefoot beach runs, ocean swims, yoga, and scenic bike rides. I’m also a voracious reader and believe books can accompany us on whatever journey we’re on.
Experiential Well-Being Coaching
Your brain 🧠 is constantly predicting what will happen next, and it updates those predictions when an experience surprises it. ✨
Explaining a pattern rarely changes it.
Experiencing something different can.
That’s why we don’t just name the pattern. We design small, specific, low-stakes experiments that give your brain new evidence to learn from. 🔎
There’s no failing an experiment. Whatever happens is a learning experience, and that’s precisely how our brains change.
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We test small, intentional changes in real life and notice what actually happens. Each time the outcome differs from what you braced for, your brain gets a reason to update its expectations. Over time, those updates add up to a life more aligned with your values.
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Your inner critic is running on an old prediction about what keeps you safe. When we meet these protective parts with curiosity instead of trying to override them, they get something new: the experience of being understood. That mismatch with what they expected is what lets an old emotional learning soften. Researchers call this process memory reconsolidation.
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Imagined experiences use many of the same brain networks as lived ones, so imagination can serve as a rehearsal space. We pair visualization with bilateral stimulation to lower the intensity of distressing predictions, then use imagery and sensations to let your brain try out new embodied, constructed experiences.
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Emotions aren’t fixed reactions that simply happen to you. Your brain constructs them in the moment, combining sensations from inside your body, like your heartbeat, breath, and muscle tension, with what you’ve learned from past experience. Neuroscientist Lisa Feldman Barrett calls this constructed emotion.
That’s why your body budget matters. Your brain is always predicting and managing what your body needs, like rest, food, movement, and connection. When that budget runs low, your brain can construct a story. For example, cues of tiredness might surface predictions of I’m not enough.
So we tend the budget, and we build emotional granularity: the ability to tell “anxious” from “focused.” The more precisely you can name what you feel, the more material your brain has to construct something new, and the better it can respond to what you actually need.
Training & Certifications
Masters in Marriage and Family Therapy (MFT), California School of Professional Psychology
Certified Professional Co-Active® Coach (CPCC), ICF-Accredited Program
EMDR Trained, EMDR Institute
Internal Family Systems (IFS) Level I Trained, IFS Institute
Somatic Internal Family Systems (IFS) Training with LaDonna Silva, LMFT, Level 3 Certified Trainer
Certificate in Somatic Embodiment via Linda Thai, LMSW, Collectively Rooted
Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT) Training via Board-Certified Clinical Psychologist, Nick Wignall